Since making the decision to live abroad I have heard various words to describe our decision. Some of the words that come to mind are – brave, courageous, crazy, impulsive, amazing, different, etc… We have been asked – why would you up and move your family, are you guys okay [my question is what does that mean, what is ‘okay’] or did you all think about this – to which I give a side-eye or eye roll.
I honestly think this decision was one of the most challenging ones we, as a family, have made. Because we LITERALLY picked up our WHOLE life as we KNEW it to live in an unknown place and eventually unknown places. We had never been to Costa Rica; however, our desire to expand and explore was greater than the fear of the unknown. Now that we are here there are challenges but with those challenges are beautiful opportunities for discovery.
When we told people we were moving to Costa Rica, some thought huts and jungles and envisioned us carrying tubs of water on our heads, while traipsing through the outback [and YES, we were told this!]. However, our reality is completely NOT that. We knew we did not want to live in heavily touristy areas but we also knew we were not looking to reside in a bungalow. When we first arrived and were living in the mountains we saw some interesting houses, placed in strange places [like the immediate side of a mountain] but we have yet to see a hut lol. Maybe homes with a literal open concept but no huts.
Since being here we have discovered many things. HA! So many things!
Things that are the norm in Estados Unidos are not a concern here. For example: screens for windows and doors. Who needs them?! Many people here leave their doors wide open and windows up, with no barrier to protect them from outside elements. This is not something that we are used to; however, we are adjusting. We hung our mosquito net from the overhang outside our front door and let the breeze flow through. We appreciate fans, especially mid-day because air conditioning is a luxury. But honestly where we have stayed the temps aren’t bad and most days it is pretty comfortable inside, until I start using the stove to cook dinner.
Another thing we have discovered is the sensitivity of the septic system here, requiring people to throw tissue away instead of flushing it. So whether you are wiping a dribble or a drab put your tissue in the small waste basket that you will find beside toilets throughout the country.
Also, the same way we feel most comfortable speaking our native language, Inglés, those here prefer, Español – which is understandable, it is their native language. Some people are willing to work with you when speaking and will put their little bit of English with our little bit of Spanish and together we make a broken conversation happen that is beautiful in the end BUT many do not even attempt [kinda like we do in the states… smh]. Those are the frustrating moments, when you have something you want to say but are not able to articulate it… oh, how many times does this happen in life and not just due to language barriers. There are days when I just wanna have a conversation with someone who can hear my heart and let me talk… just let me use my words lol
This is why I keep Stress Away and Peace and Calm essential oil blends on deck. I’ve got to figure out how to get my order shipped here so I won’t run low but, uh, figuring that out is another blog.
Have you had to adjust in a foreign place? How did you handle it? Tell me in the comments.
These small frustrations do not outweigh the joy we have knowing we are giving our kids the world. As imperfect, as it may seem to some, it is perfect for us at this time in our lives. It is our brave, courageous, crazy, impulsive, amazing, different, and love-filled life, as we explore the world.
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